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just wait till I'm freer 

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Blog EntryMar 7, '12 8:26 AM
for everyone
儿子这年纪最可爱,话多、点子多… 
有时希望他能快点长大,有时又觉得时间跑慢点好
-康宇 07.03.2012 -

图:正喜和我 05.02.2012 FaceTime 的画面




康宇:正喜,你大了哦~ 不可以跟妈咪一起睡了,知道吗? 
正喜:啊… 我要哦,因为你也是跟妈咪一起睡啊~ 
康宇:可是妈咪是我老婆哦… 
正喜:可是我是你们的小孩子哦… 
康宇:这样你几时才自己睡? 
正喜:等我大啦~ 
康宇:怎样才算大? 
正喜:像你这样大啦~ 
康宇:…… 


正喜都快四岁半了,但是睡觉是还是很依赖人家陪他睡。至少每晚都要慧雯(我太太)陪他睡,如果慧雯出门的话,那他就没办法自己睡, 因为我不会顺他意。正喜睡觉还有个坏习惯就是喜欢把手放在慧雯的背后,这样真的很不舒服啊…所以有时候慧雯会抓硬让他自己睡,但是他半夜还是会爬上我们的床睡…我想再过几个月后就弄个他自己的房间,让他自己一个人睡。


Blog EntryJan 6, '12 10:07 PM
for everyone

每个人的童年都有一个小食堂
每一个小食堂都有一个小故事

- 康宇 -


前提:

林梦中华学校是我的母校,它成立于1959年,处于林梦市中心附近的一座小山坡上…其实菜市场就在山坡下。1986年是我小学一年级,我在母校只有三年,然后就跟着父亲离开林梦去成邦江了。虽然我在这里只有三年,可是母校对我的影响很深远… 它给了我很多很宝贵的回忆。我在这里哭过、笑过、被老师打过、骂过、当班长、拿藤鞭打同学、当巡查员、拉校钟、在班上漏尿、考试得到全校第一、暗恋女同学…直到十年后才跟人家联络、告白、然后失败… 等等。

1988年,我离开了林梦,离开了母校。2009 年10月24日,我又回到了母校。隔了二十年,我又站在自己二十二年前班上漏尿的原地。心情难免很激动… 二十年了,很多东西变了,很多却也还是老样子… 很多也都是二十多年的东西了。也许是天意,那一次也是最后一次见到母校… 因为2010年9月27日,母校就被搬迁去新的地方…一座拥有51年历史的学校,也完成了它的使命。

我真的很幸运能搭上最后一次机会拥抱它。

文库:http://beingelvish.multiply.com/tag/母校与我
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那一天是我第一天上学。我,一个个子小小的一年级生。那一天,在我记忆里是如此地空白,除了在这小食堂发生的一件事。妈妈在上午休息节时来看我,问我还适应新学校吗?我说还好。妈妈问我饿吗?我也说还好。结果妈妈说她去食堂帮我买东西吃,我也说好。

当时下课时间,食堂都挤满了学生。因为食堂太小、周围的空间也很有限,学生们都是一窝蜂地抢着买食物… 你挤我推的,而不是整整齐齐地排队。妈妈叫我在食堂前等,然后就转身往着人群挤进去。从人群外挤到柜台,然后出来,妈妈的步伐都不是直线的… 而我当时的心情也是如此。

看着妈妈手上拿着的那两串鱿鱼片沙爹,心里觉得自己太麻烦了妈妈… 此时,妈妈笑着说快吃吧,我嘴上跟妈妈说谢谢,心里却喊着:妈妈,你好伟大啊!

食堂也许很小、意义可以重大。妈妈心意也许很小、母爱却是如此伟大啊~



Blog EntryDec 17, '11 3:36 AM
for everyone
童年
像瓶酒
越久越旧
就越香

忆童年
像品酒
一啜一吸
一片一段的儿时影像
倒映在脑海面上

重温童年
像拼酒
让人忘了懊恼
甚至醉去

- 康宇 -


前提:

林梦中华学校是我的母校,它成立于1959年,处于林梦市中心附近的一座小山坡上…其实菜市场就在山坡下。1986年是我小学一年级,我在母校只有三年,然后就跟着父亲离开林梦去成邦江了。虽然我在这里只有三年,可是母校对我的影响很深远… 它给了我很多很宝贵的回忆。我在这里哭过、笑过、被老师打过、骂过、当班长、拿藤鞭打同学、当巡查员、拉校钟、在班上漏尿、考试得到全校第一、暗恋女同学…直到十年后才跟人家联络、告白、然后失败… 等等。

1988年,我离开了林梦,离开了母校。2009 年10月24日,我又回到了母校。隔了二十年,我又站在自己二十二年前班上漏尿的原地。心情难免很激动… 二十年了,很多东西变了,很多却也还是老样子… 很多也都是二十多年的东西了。也许是天意,那一次也是最后一次见到母校… 因为2010年9月27日,母校就被搬迁去新的地方…一座拥有51年历史的学校,也完成了它的使命。

我真的很幸运能搭上最后一次机会拥抱它。

文库:http://beingelvish.multiply.com/tag/母校与我
图库:http://beingelvish.multiply.com/photos/album/124


记得那一天,我心情特别紧张… 眼前的那个山坡好熟悉,二十年前我从那山坡走下来后就没再上过… 虽然这一天没蓝蓝的天,可是心中早已哼着歌“蓝蓝的天,白白的云,蓝天白云好时光,我们手拉手,大步向前走,啦啦啦啦啦啦啦啦~” … 这首歌是一位学长(六年级生)当年歌唱比赛的冠军曲哦~


母校有三座课室,我以前只在 A 座待过…当时比较高班的都是在 C 座。原因是让比较小年级的学生更近食堂(也就是“贩卖部”)和老师办公室…比较受保护些吧。C 座好像是我二年级时才建好的,当时 B 座是给比较大班的同学… 还有图书馆也在那。


以下的就是 C 座,也是礼堂… 


在礼堂那里也有很多回忆,记得曾经在那台上表演跳舞… 好像主题是“阿里巴巴和四十大盗”… 因为人力和舞台有限结果只有四个小”大盗“。 你们猜得到我是哪位吗?


再往上走,发现旁边多了个走廊。以前只有马路,结果每次放学时巡查员都得在那排成一排维持次序,以确保学生不会乱跑…要不然与上上下下的车辆很容易发生意外。我三年级时就是巡查员,当时觉得任务很重大…因为连大班的学生都得听我的…哈哈。不过这还不是我在母校最重大的任务,我还有一个任务是全校都得“听”我的,那就是拉校钟!那个故事就留下一次说…


山坡的马路的终点就是 B座,而也是我最熟悉的景物,连那墙壁的颜色搭配好像都没变过。我二年级都在底楼最右角的那课室度过。课室前面那些空位都是学生们休息时间和下课后玩耍的地方,那阵阵的欢笑声在脑海里还是如此的清晰… 


接着,我就像二十年前休息时间时坐在课室外面那柱子旁看着同学们,好多同学的脸孔逐渐在脑里闪过… 一些儿时玩的游戏也慢慢回忆起了… 真的很开心。



Blog EntryNov 22, '11 9:39 AM
for everyone
正喜拍婆婆
- 清迈机场 21.11.2011 -


前提:

我是个糟糕的佛教徒,很多关于佛教的学问都是一问三不知,什么四圣谛、八正道、五蘊等等我真的背不起来,不过我会明白其道理。身为佛教徒的我,自认对佛教的学问很差、对佛教里该有的实践更是差、差、差!简单说,我给我自己不及格。虽然很糟糕,但我跟佛教很有缘分,心里深处总会有股微薄的声音告诉我去接近佛教…因此我会尽力自己去看些佛书来了解佛教。我希望可以和大家分享一些我这"学佛之路“上的点点滴滴。

其实学佛很简单,像阿公阿嬷那样诚心念阿弥陀佛就可以了。但是要真正去明白佛教的理论和精华是很不容易的事。我个人觉得佛教不适合全部人…因为它有些东西很难去解释、甚至去明白…我觉得没有一定的智慧是不行的,因为佛学的理论不能神化,所以需要逻辑性的去问、去答。有时候,我读了又读,最终只能说我“知道”,可是我还是 “不明白”。譬如说大家都知道光速很快,可是为什么它那么快呢?

我就是哪个从小就喜欢问“为什么”的人,所以当了科学家,也跑去看佛书了…

一直以来,我都以为人死后灵魂就会离开身体,然后会“过堂”,“法官”应该是耶稣,阎罗王,阿拉,等等其中一位吧。之后不是去天堂或地狱,就是去投胎… 这样说大概是99%的人会认同的吧。几天前我念了一本书"Question Time by Venerable Dr. K. Sri Dhammananda",作者(达摩难陀)生前是马来西亚佛教大长老,小弟我也很幸运的听过一次他的讲座。书里谈到佛教所说的轮回不是一个灵魂从一个身体转去另一个身体,而是一个“神识”(精神、意识)不停地经历生老病死。

达摩难陀书里写的是:" The Buddha taught clearly that we are reborn, not reincarnated, as there is no soul migrating upon death to another body to "re-become"

" Buddhism clearly teaches that there is no such thing as a soul which enters a "body". Both are nothing more than rapidly changing processes - mind & matter. They have extremely short life spans - no more than the duration of an 'in breath' or an 'out breath'. The rapidity of the process gives rise to the illusion of a permanent entity we call a self. So in our ignorance, we say a soul leaves a body at death. Actually, it is a process which simply continues when the physical body ceases to function.

读到这里时,相信很多人像我一样觉得一头雾水。没灵魂,那我是啥?我在网络“跑”了几回,发现以下这文章是最简单去“知道”这整回事的解说。记得我说“知道”和“明白”的分别吗?为了要确定大乘小乘佛教说明一样,也多“跑”了几趟,这(link)是星云大师的解说,还有这(link)是圣严法师的解说。

翻了好多本书,我只能说我“大概明白”这一回事。人们所谓的灵魂是不变的,也就是说这灵魂可以永远的存在(可以上天堂或地狱,然后永远在那…要不就是从一个身体跑去另一个身体)。佛说“无我”,并非说“我”不存在,而是“我”是暂时性的… 也就是说一切是“无常”的。达摩难陀的另一本书(What Buddhist Believe)和以下的文章都有提到的是佛教没有完全否定灵魂的存在,而是否定一个永远的灵魂。“佛陀的沉默”提到佛陀不回答的十个问题:

一、有关宇宙的问题
1.宇宙是永恒的吗?
2.宇宙不是永恒的吗?
3.宇宙是有限的吗?
4.宇宙是无限的吗? 

二、有关心理学方面的问题 (以下“心”就是所谓的“灵魂”)
5.身与心是同一物吗?
6.身是一物,心又是一物吗? 

三、佛陀悟证的境界问题 (如来=佛)
7.如来死后继续存在吗?
8.如来死后不再继续存在吗?
9.如来死后是既存在亦同时不存在吗?
10.如来死后既不存在亦同时非不存在吗?

佛陀为什么不回答以上这些形而上学的问题呢?主要原因是这些问题与佛陀的教诲没有多大关系。最容易解释的方法就是以下这个故事:

佛陀时代,一位比丘名叫曼童子,有一天,他午后静坐时,忽然起来去到佛所,行过礼后在一旁坐下,就说:“世尊,我正独自静坐,忽然起了一个念头:有十个问题你从来没有给我们明确的解释。每当人们向您问起这些问题时,您总是将之搁置一边,沉默不语。我不喜欢这种做法。世尊,今天您若跟我解释清楚这十个问题,我将继续修梵行;如果世尊仍对这些问题保持沉默,我便会失去信心,不再修梵行。如果世尊知道世间是永恒的,就请照这样给我解释。如果宇宙不是永恒的,又为什么?如果您对这些问题也不知道,就直接说:‘我不知道。’”

佛陀说:“你这愚蠢的人啊!你当初出家修行就是为了了解这些形而上学的问题吗?你跟随我修梵行时我答应过你将会回答这些问题吗?”曼童子回答说:“世尊,没有。”佛陀说:“在你还没有得到如来的答案之前就要死掉了。曼童子,假使有一个人被毒箭所伤,他的亲友带他去看外科医生。假如当时那人说:我不愿把这毒箭拔出来,除非我知道是谁射我的,他是刹帝利种姓、婆罗门种姓、吠舍还是首陀罗种姓;他是高、是矮还是中等身材;他的肤色是黑色、白色、棕色还是金黄色;他来自哪一个城市或乡村。我不愿取出此毒箭,除非我知道我是被什么弓所射中,弓弦是什么样的;哪一型的箭;箭是哪种毛制的;箭簇又是什么材料所制……曼童子,这人在未弄清这些答案之前早就死了。同样,如果有人说,我不要跟随世尊修梵行,除非他回答我,宇宙是否永恒等问题,此人还未得到如来的答案就已告死亡了。”由于人生是短促的,如果某人整天为这些形而上学的问题所困扰,穷追不舍,追根穷源,这便误入歧途,终将一无所获。


 

Reincarnation in Buddhism - What the Buddha didn't teach
by Barbara O'Brien

Source: http://buddhism.about.com/od/karmaandrebirth/a/reincarnation.htm

Would you be surprised if I told you that reincarnation is not a Buddhist teaching? If so, be surprised -- it isn't.

"Reincarnation" normally is understood to be the transmigration of a soul to another body after death. There is no such teaching in Buddhism. One of the most fundamental doctrines of Buddhism is anatta, or anatman -- no soul or no self. There is no permanent essence of an individual self that survives death.

However, Buddhists often speak of "rebirth." If there is no soul or permanent self, what is it that is "reborn"?

What Is the Self?

The Buddha taught that what we think of as our "self" -- our ego, self-consciousness and personality -- is a creation of the skandhas. Very simply, our bodies, physical and emotional sensations, conceptualizations, ideas and beliefs, and consciousness work together to create the illusion of a permanent, distinctive "me."

The Buddha said, “Oh, Bhikshu, every moment you are born, decay, and die.” He meant that, every moment, the illusion of "me" renews itself. Not only is nothing carried over from one life to the next; nothing is carried over from one moment to the next.

This takes us to the Three Marks of Existence, in particular anicca, "impermanence." The Buddha taught that all phenomena, including beings, are in a constant state of flux -- always changing, always becoming, always dying.

What Is Reborn?

In his book What the Buddha Taught (1959), Theravada scholar Walpola Rahula asked,

"If we can understand that in this life we can continue without a permanent, unchanging substance like Self or Soul, why can't we understand that those forces themselves can continue without a Self or Soul behind them after the non-functioning of the body?

"When this physical body is no more capable of functioning, energies do not die with it, but continue to take some other shape or form, which we call another life. ... Physical and mental energies which constitute the so-called being have within themselves the power to take a new form, and grow gradually and gather force to the full."

Zen teacher John Daido Loori said,

"... the Buddha’s experience was that when you go beyond the skandhas, beyond the aggregates, what remains is nothing. The self is an idea, a mental construct. That is not only the Buddha’s experience, but the experience of each realized Buddhist man and woman from 2,500 years ago to the present day. That being the case, what is it that dies? There is no question that when this physical body is no longer capable of functioning, the energies within it, the atoms and molecules it is made up of, don’t die with it. They take on another form, another shape. You can call that another life, but as there is no permanent, unchanging substance, nothing passes from one moment to the next. Quite obviously, nothing permanent or unchanging can pass or transmigrate from one life to the next. Being born and dying continues unbroken but changes every moment."

Thought Moment to Thought Moment

The teachers tell us that "me" is a series of thought-moments. Each thought-moment conditions the next thought-moment. In the same way, the last thought-moment of one life conditions the first thought-moment of another life, which is the continuation of a series. "The person who dies here and is reborn elsewhere is neither the same person, nor another," Walpola Rahula wrote.

This is not easy to understand, and cannot be fully understood with intellect alone. For this reason, many schools of Buddhism emphasize a meditation practice that enables intimate realization of the illusion of self.

Karma and Rebirth

The force that propels this continuity is karma. Karma is another Asian concept that Westerners (and, for that matter, a lot of Easterners) often misunderstand. Karma is not fate, but simple action and reaction, cause and effect. For a more complete explanation, please see "Karma for Buddhists 101: Introduction to the Buddhist Understanding of Karma."

Very simply, Buddhism teaches that karma means "volitional action." Any thought, word or deed conditioned by desire, hate, passion and illusion create karma. When the effects of karma reach across lifetimes, karma brings about rebirth.

The Persistence of Belief in Reincarnation

There is no question that many Buddhists, East and West, continue to believe in individual reincarnation. Parables from the sutras and "teaching aids" like the Tibetan Wheel of Life tend to reinforce this belief.

The Rev. Takashi Tsuji, a Jodo Shinshu priest, wrote about belief in reincarnation:

"It is said that the Buddha left 84,000 teachings; the symbolic figure represents the diverse backgrounds characteristics, tastes, etc. of the people. The Buddha taught according to the mental and spiritual capacity of each individual. For the simple village folks living during the time of the Buddha, the doctrine of reincarnation was a powerful moral lesson. Fear of birth into the animal world must have frightened many people from acting like animals in this life. If we take this teaching literally today we are confused because we cannot understand it rationally.

"...A parable, when taken literally, does not make sense to the modern mind. Therefore we must learn to differentiate the parables and myths from actuality."

What's the Point?

People often turn to religion for doctrines that provide simple answers to difficult questions. Buddhism doesn't work that way. Merely believing in some doctrine about reincarnation or rebirth has no purpose. Buddhism is a practice that enables experiencing illusion as illusion and reality as reality.

The Buddha taught that our delusional belief in "me" causes our many dissatisfactions with life (dukkha). When the illusion is experienced as illusion, we are liberated.

As always, if you have questions or want to discuss this or other Buddhism topics, please visit the Buddhism forums.


Blog EntryNov 6, '11 9:16 AM
for everyone
Guess what Ernest is holding?
- Elvis Chung 06.11.2011 -


First of all, I apologize for the photo quality, this is so NOT to my usual standard but I'm too busy to take out my DSLR. I was busy writing an article (work related) and Ernest kept making noise around me. So, I told him to make me a robot that can swim and fly using his lego set. In a short while, he came up with this robot, which has hands and feet to paddle (swim), as well as wings that can fly. So I just quickly snap some photos with my Macbook webcam.

My mum is always pestering me to get Ernest to read more books, do more writing but I told her that he is really good in building things and playing (he's really dramatic when he plays with his toys, lots of sounds, imagination, storyline, etc). He is only 4 years old, he can write numbers and his name but cannot read a book. However, he can read names of the characters in his favorite cartoon "Cars 2". His writing isn't the best but I think when it comes to creativity, he definitely will surpass me one day.

see those orange feet? Love them... and don't ask me why the eye is below the arms...


I can really picture this robot swimming in the sea...



为了写这编文章,大脑细胞死了不少 
因为发现原来自己是一本很难念的书。 
- 康宇 2011 - 



婚礼…每个人都去得多了,但是丧礼倒很少… 可是去年(2010)我就去了两个朋友的丧礼。他们两个都大概只有五十岁,可以算是英年早逝…而且去世得很突然。第一位在红绿灯三叉路口等时,突然一辆超速的水泥车失控而撞过来…一瞬间车子被夹得不成形。另一位在深夜独自驾车,车子忽然失控结果车祸而亡。他们俩生前都很健康,而且都是很开朗、爱说笑的人…因此人缘都很好。他们出殡的时间都在工作时间,但是我还是抽空去参加他们的丧礼…算是一个尊敬、也给予他们家人一些慰问。 

回想起来,十五岁那年是第一次参加丧礼,也是我舅公的丧礼。当时还得从美里坐九十分钟的车去到尼亚小镇。我记得父亲还跟我说小孩其实不需要去,可是我硬要去…因为想跟舅公道别。我舅公也是很开朗、爱说笑的人… 因此当我到他家是发现大家都哭着,心中有无比的伤感… 毕竟在他生前每次去他家时都是很开心的回忆。我记得当时已经哭到眼红红的舅舅和舅母们还得忙照顾小孩和客人,还得和亲戚朋友打招呼、说话、等等。然后,就是一连串的丧礼仪式。让我印象最深刻的就是当棺材被抬上车子是大家抱着一起痛苦的一幕… 突然发现连我父亲也哭了,那也是我第一次看到父亲哭泣。结果呢? 我也哭了… 

我从丧礼认识了死亡,可是对它还是一知半解。但是因为我认了它,我觉得我比较会去珍惜生命… 自己的生命,家人的生命。譬如说我父母现在都已经六十多岁了,他们也常常无忌的说自己几时走都不知道… 说真的这句话很有道理。如果马来西亚人口平均寿命是75岁,那也许跟父母在一起的日子大概只有十、二十年。当你像我这样过了三十岁后,你就会发现原来十年很快过。了解这道理是一回事,把那道理转为行动又是另一回事,而且又是很不容易的事。慢慢的,什么误会我都先道歉,没错也道歉… 学会包容。自于请吃、红包、生活费都从第一天拿到薪水时都有给。现在,我最想的就是请他们一起去旅行。重点一:爱我们的父母。我不是圣人,也不是个二十四孝的儿子,但是基本的还不差… 不过这些对现在的年轻人好像越来越不重要,过年不回家、忘记父母生日、等等…很可悲。 

我喜欢叶问电影里的一句对白:“还有什么事比跟家人吃饭更重要”。现在的社会,父母在外工作,几乎三餐都在外解决…幸运的话还可以和孩子一起吃,不过多数是大人小孩各自吃各自的。家,已经变成一个休息的地方而已,冲凉、看电视、睡觉、等等。久了大家就习惯了各自生活,父母也觉得让孩子这样很好,可以独立… 可是这样环境下长大的孩子不能感觉到家里的温暖,大人也一样。慢慢的…觉得没妈妈或老婆也无所谓,反正外头有饭吃。觉得没爸爸或老公都无所谓,反正朋友多得很。最近常常看到报章有很多自杀的案件,从小学生到青少年… 是社会问题还是个人问题?是因为爱错人还是因为用了错的方式去爱一个人?是因为负担太重还是因为不懂得放开?是因为感觉绝望还是因为不给自己机会去寻找新希望?当然每个案件背后都有很复杂的故事,可是生命难道可以如此随便的看待吗?因为少了那份温暖,所以觉得生命不重要,也不了解那份爱其实不是不在,而是没去耕耘。 

丧礼都让人想起亡者的过去。人们常想起过去的事,毕竟人的大脑都喜欢记起好的回忆,也选择忘记不好的。回忆过去让人觉得有归属感,成就感,简单说就是要抓住那快乐幸福的感觉。在丧礼同个时候,人们也想着未来,明天做什么、后天呢、下个月呢?其实不止是在丧礼,平时人们都是忙着思考明天的事,却惦记着过去的事。过去、是曾经的现在,未来、是以后的现在;可是“现在”却是大脑最少去关注的事。丧礼让我学会更加珍惜现在的一切,现在对父母好一点,让以后的过去更充实;现在跟老婆孩子多玩乐,让未来的未来更美好。因为对“现在”特别注意,所以也让我比较容易去策划未来…知道什么应该做,什么不应该做。 

坦白说,要学会珍惜现在是一件不容易的事。对于现在所拥有的一切,很多人的心态是这些都是理所当然的事。爸妈养我,应该的。老婆做饭给我,是她本份。老公请我出去吃饭,是他该做的。如果你有去观察,很多人都不会对自己家人说谢谢…可是如果同一件事换着是朋友帮你,那说声谢谢反而很自然。家人如果慢来帮忙,也许会唠唠叨叨,可是换做是朋友你也能还先说抱歉要麻烦他。至今我还在学习着如何更加去珍惜现在、学习说谢谢、学习感恩… 同个时候也得教家里的一大一小这一点。如果一个家有了这概念,大家的感情自然会更好些。 

最后,丧礼让我学会看开一些… 学会不要对某些事情太过于计较和执着,学会放开。这是我觉得最难的事,不执着不代表不求上进,而是懂得什么时候该放手。对人处事方面别太计较… 但也别让人欺负。我相信因缘,所以任何正面或负面的事情都会让我去思考,希望自己可以多以平常心去看待它… 和珍惜身边的一切。 

后记:那天和一位老友谈起这文章的内容,他的回答是:“不是每个十八岁都有像你十八岁那时的思维… ”



Blog EntrySep 23, '11 12:47 AM
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图:02.09.2011 正喜的艺术品


那天我和儿子父子俩一起在家里喝下午茶时,忽然正喜把吃了一半的饼干插在 cheese 上面,然后很兴奋的跟我说… 

正喜:爸爸你看! 
康宇:这是什么啊?
正喜:我在种花!  

难得看到儿子有新作品,我赶紧叫他不要吃先,马上抓了我的小型相机拍了它。我也顺便拍了他吃饼干的样子,结果拍一半又叫他停一下… 因为 kick 来了、手痒了…就把隐藏许久的 DSLR 拿出来… 





快乐时光,眨眼就过。 
Now you see it, now you don't



Blog EntryJul 31, '11 7:21 AM
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Since I've given up on wedding photography, I planned to try on the long exposure technique. If you compare the two, they are quite similar whereby making mistake can be heart breaking. In wedding photography, you make a mistake by missing out on the split second moments. In long exposure, you have only one chance to make the photo too but not in a split second, it will be over many minutes. Why is that? read on...

Here's a photo I took this evening, my setting was ISO100, JPG, 34mm, F22, 1149sec... yes, it was taken over 19 minutes!!. Why I do that? err...few reasons, this is a famous bridge in a middle of a park, people walk along the bridge..but when I expose this over 19 minutes, any passer-by will appear as if they are ghosts (transparent). Throughout that 19 minutes (which felt like eternity for what I'm used to in photography), there were few cyclists and runners going over the bridge. Another reason to have such a long exposure is so that the cloud will all smear (smooth) out evenly.

Like I said, it is heart breaking if I had made a mistake (not focusing properly, shook the tripod, or even doing the maths wrong on the exposure time) because by the time I finished taking the photo, it's too dark already and I have to get home. Yes, I could return the next day but that's not the point (assuming bridge is still there, no rain, etc), moments don't wait for you… even if it's such a bloody long one.

p/s: willsun, I'm waiting for your comment. :)




Blog EntryJul 30, '11 6:19 AM
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不要以为孩子们小小什么都不懂,
有时候他们反而是我们的老师

-康宇 2010 -

图: 25.05.2011 正喜在奥克兰机场寿司店




事情发生于2010 圣诞节,在香港一家购物中心里。当时三岁的正喜在儿童活动区玩的时候 (那种有很多旧玩具、任小孩玩乐的… 如果你有小孩你就知道我在讲什么了),他看上了一辆玩警察车,结果玩了接近一个小时,其它玩具都不动。过后我说够了,要去找妈妈了… 他就很舍不得地把那玩具车放回去。当我们离开后没多久就遇到我太太… 怎知太太她又想逛。结果,我和正喜又重回地点。可是他喜欢的玩具警察车已经被一个小男孩拿了。接下来发生的事让我很难忘。

那小男孩右手拿在那辆车,左手又拿着另一个玩具。他却偏偏不玩那玩具车而顾着玩另一个玩具。正喜看了就问我可不可玩那个玩具车,我说那你要去问他呀。结果正喜一问那男孩就马上被拒绝了,然后正喜就跑回来告诉我说弟弟不给他玩。结果每几分钟正喜就会重复同样动作和问题,每一次都被拒绝、每一次都来和我投诉。我每一次都跟正喜说那玩具是属于大家的,不过因为弟弟拿了,就得等他玩完后或者他愿意让出才能拿。那小男孩偶尔会把那玩具车放一旁,然后转身去玩其它玩具。这时正喜就会跑去拿,可是就会被他凶凶的抢回。我看了很无奈,心里像怎么有那么自私的男孩。他顶多小正喜几个月,却对礼让一点都不懂。更糟的是他一点都没玩那玩具车,只是把它霸着而放在他身边。

我很好奇这男孩的父母是怎么样的父母,一看我就明白为什么了… 男孩的爸爸在忙着玩电动,妈妈忙着按手机,两个根本都没理会儿子在干嘛。可怜的正喜越来越心急,他还尝试拿其它玩具和那男孩交换,可是屡试屡败。我一直劝儿子不用再问他了,因为这男孩是不会让给任何小孩的。我告诉儿子不如我们去别的地方、别的儿童活动区玩,也许会有更好玩的。可是正喜就是不要,他说他要等。

这样的局面就维持了接近一小时,男孩越霸越多玩具,其它孩子们也“中”他招… 男孩的父母还是依旧地忙电动和手机,根本都不理孩子的行为。我越看越火,有点想去骂人的感觉 (我脾气是比较不好的),正喜也都问到累了,害得我一直得安慰他…可是一直劝他离开他就是不要。最后,我火了,我说我们走,不要理这自私的小弟弟。正喜说不要走,我说走了,要去找妈妈了… 正喜还是不要,我就站起来,很坚定的说“走!”

此时,正喜握紧双手,闭紧双眼,突然很大很大声地喊一声长长的 “啊!!!!”

那一刻感觉好像很久,却把我心里的火一瞬间扑灭… 在场的人都停下眼前一切活动,看着我们。此时,我伸出右手,轻轻的跟正喜说:“走吧……”正喜没说什么、也没闹、没哭,就牵了我的手… 然后我们一对父子就好像若无其事、头也不回地离开那地方。

走着走着,我微笑了…



I had a crazy night last night… I ate my dinner (rice & stir-fry lamb with cabbage) around 6.30pm, went to the gym at 8pm, then came home, watched TV, and had a video chat with my family for an hour until 11pm+. I had two glasses of white wine during the video chat. After the chat, i went straight to bed. It all seemed like a normal Friday night to me so far…

Then, I woke up in the middle of the night and had this terrible stomach discomfort, my head was heavy & really dizzy. I couldn't even walk straight, in fact, I could barely stand up. I was completely disorientated, I would say 50% of the things that happened next I couldn't remember right now….. but at that time, I knew I was seriously sick… I have brief memory that I had diarrhea & stomach pain, which made me weaker & dehydrated. So I tried to get some water to drink and sat on the floor… Suddenly, i felt some "stomach juice" coming out of my throat, quickly I shut my mouth with my hands and immediate all the vomit burst out. I rushed to the toilet, just in time for continuos rounds of vomiting. I was so weak that I was sitting on the floor doing all the vomiting. I even had to rest my head on the edge of the toilet bowl because I can't even support it. I felt really sick… and I called the hospital. I felt I could pass out anytime because I felt so weak.

Then the ambulance came, I went downstairs… I don't quite remember how I walked down but I remember I got into the elevator to go downstairs. I saw the medic, he asked me how I was and I replied I'm a little better as I've just vomited. He asked if I need to go to hospital and I told him "probably not" because I thought I'm fine after throwing out (the dinner etc). So he said I can call again if I need to and he left. I went back to my room, suddenly another wave of dizziness and vomiting occur… this time was so bad that after vomiting, I just lay flat on the floor. I couldn't even crawl to get some water to re-hydrate myself. I didn't know how long I was laying there but I was on the floor for some time. Feeling really sick, I felt I need help/medication quickly because I'm getting weaker and weaker.

So I called the hospital again… and the ambulance came. I got into the ambulance (somehow by myself… I remember I took my wallet, phone and key… but can't remember how I get downstairs… most likely the elevator). Once I got into the ambulance, I felt safer but I was very weak. On the journey, I remembered my ambulance came across an accident, we stopped there for a short while. Finally, I got into the hospital, doctor examined me and just left me resting on the bed in the corner… it is only then I realized it's 3am (because the doctor told me)… I was so tired I felt asleep… when I woke up, I was in another room, weak but no longer feel like vomiting. Another 2 doctors came in turns to check on me. Finally, they gave me a pill to take and water (finally, some water after two hours). I was discharged at 5.30am… took a taxi and went back to apartment. I woke up at 9.30am.. took a shower, cook & ate breakfast, and even read through the Saturday newspaper like it's just another Saturday!

I felt a bit guilty calling the ambulance (twice!)… but I think at one point, I felt I was going to be unconscious. It was a terrible experience but luckily I remember only 70% of it.

Blog EntryJul 28, '11 7:30 AM
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Folks, have a look at these… not sure if you've seen or heard it before but I just found out about it over the last 2 days...

I think it'll change the way we use computer, gaming, and learning in general... in very near future.



Blog EntryJul 23, '11 4:27 AM
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Being Ernest = 非常正喜

-图:05.06.2011  文:16.07.2011 -







这文章有点怪,因为标题是华文,内容是英文… 原因是我不知道“童言无忌”英文怎么写,而当天的语录是英文… 接下来就用英文写吧。

Ernest (my son) is very interested in anything that got to do with fire engines & fire brigade… toys, cartoons, photos, books etc. So, two weeks ago he found out that the library has a story book about his favorite Fireman Sam cartoon and he wanted to borrow it. However, for some reason, the system was not ready for public to check out the book. So, a week later, he went back to the library and immediate rushed to the counter and ask the librarian…

Ernest: "where is the Fireman Sam book?"

Librarian: "Sorry, the system is down and won't be fixed today so you can't borrow books"

Before Ernest had time to talk further, Wendy (my wife) quickly pulled him away from the counter to bring him to the children books section. She has to do it or else Ernest will ask more questions and could be hassling the poor librarian. However, Wendy & Ernest tried to find the book but couldn't find. So, Ernest ran to the counter again...

Ernest: "where is the Fireman Sam book?"

Librarian: "can you try over there?" (pointing at the children's section)

Ernest: "my mommy tried to find but she can't find it…"

then he asked again...

Ernest: "where is the Fireman Sam book?"

Librarian: "i don't know"

Ernest: "but you are the librarian"

Librarian: "……………"



Blog EntryJun 19, '11 12:02 AM
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The quiet town of New Plymouth made the headlines in New Zealand because a tornado went through the town early morning today. I only heard of the news when Alger told me about it... when he's actually in Qatar... sometimes, I wonder if he works as a toxicologist or a news reporter.. haha...

Anyway, feeling bored, I took a walk to visit the area where the tornado had damaged the buildings. I was quite worried after seeing the damage and the fact that these happened just a street away from where I'm staying.

I saw tiles all over the road and I'm just glad it happened when no one is on the street. Otherwise, it would seriously injured people or even kill them.



Some trees fell too... judging from the damage, I would say everyone is lucky that it's a small one this time.




Blog EntryJun 18, '11 6:45 PM
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Just glad I'm not out there in that boat...

- Elvis Chung 19.06.2011 -



I must admit it's quite hard to be away from family, and work in a foreign land for a long duration (so far it's been 7 weeks). Fortunately (and I mean it), I'm quite a lone ranger. However, that doesn't mean I have no struggle to pass through time. I am not a keen nor good reader and thus, I'm just glad I have my camera and my laptop with me... I call it



My Time-Killing Machine...






Blog EntryJun 18, '11 6:48 AM
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Father & son... are like... err... hot chocolate & toast

- Elvis Chung 2011 -






Blog EntryMay 30, '11 5:09 AM
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It is always good to meet a fellow Malaysian in a foreign land, and it is even better to meet one who is also a Multiply blogger - Alger. It was a hot day and I think if the food wasn't cooked well, it sure did by the end of the meal under the hot sun.



I ordered a Pan fried snapper with chipotle chilli and lime, avocado purée and marinated tomatoes.



Alger ordered a salad, Creamed feta spinach with fried almonds



and his choice of entree was a char-grilled big eye tuna with aubergine caponata salad and fried caper dressing... don't ask me what these mean, I only know it is a tuna with vege (or something that is a plant, haha...)





Blog EntryMay 16, '11 7:01 AM
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我要吃菜,不要吃草。
- 康宇 2011 -



纽西兰人口440万人,土地268000 平方公里,平均一平方公里有16人。每个人税后净月入平均是2500纽币。

马来西亚砂州人口240万人,土地124500 平方公里,平均一平方公里有19人。每个人税后净月入平均是2500马币。

比较下,两者很相似,如果汇率是一对一,那就更像了。可是就算是一对一,我觉得砂州子民的血汗钱还是不划。为什么这样说呢?

今天小弟去买菜,花了(纽币) $1.29 买了个像我脸这么大的硬花甘蓝 (broccoli),还有一个大得不像样的芹菜(celery),$1.69 一个…对,是一个。换句话说,三块钱的菜足够我吃三天三夜,吃到脸青。如果在砂州,三块钱的菜只能够我吃两餐,而且一定要炒特咸点,要不然一定不够配饭吃。这,是事实。

砂州大片肥土地,可是种的都是油棕树。油棕能吃吗?连牛都知道油棕不能当菜吃啊。油棕园里唯一能吃的就是那偶尔跑出来的山猪。这,也是事实。


Blog EntryMay 10, '11 6:42 AM
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最近闹得满城风雨的砂州选举终于都结束了。虽然白毛这次没倒(一点都不稀奇),但是州议会里多了一些民联议员来监督国阵的行政,怎样都是件好事。不过,这一次国阵华裔候选人只有两位入阁,而且前华人副首长也落马。这样让好多人觉得没有华人部长,华社是不是会被忽略?也有一些美里人很当心以后没有国阵部长撑腰,美里的发展是否会受到影响?其实国阵候选人在州选期间已经拿了以上两个话题来做拉票的话儿,不过还是被淘汰了。可见美里人民已经很不耐烦,不管那么多了。不过,少了国阵议员代表美里真的不会影响美里发展嘛?

第一,美里是个风水城,有山有水,地下有石油,地上有棕油,周末还有一大队的纹莱游客来买菜油。为了赢回民心、赢回美里,发展与工程一定少不了。民心是回事,最重要的还是钱要赚到,所以大工程一定要跑,要不然财神爷先跑。想想看如果美里没发展,很多人就会很掺…例如石灰没人买,家族生意就亏大了;油棕树少种几英亩,森林就不能光天化日下开辟当材来卖,老朋友肯定没得发财。

第二,比起乡下,大城市肯定是最容易赚钱的地方,要不然也不会那么多人在这里做生意。城市里,建筑、贸易、吃的喝的跳的玩的、样样都牵连着政客。大家都要在城市找吃、在城市居住,怎么会没发展呢?让我感到悲哀的是砂州拥有大片肥土地,可是米要进口,水果要进口,菜也要进口。这肥土地出口最赚钱的一样东西,就是黑钱。不是石油和木材最赚钱吗?错了,用钱来赚钱,就是最赚钱的生意了。也因此这样,这次最大输家的不是落选的政客们,而是那些乡下的土著。他们注定将失去更多土地、继续落后城市的发展、衣食住行样样还是不行。他们永远都不会得到更好的福利(医药、学校、等等),因为如果他们进步了、有知识了、只会发现原来国家贪污是那么严重、那么糟糕。

这块叉烧烤了那么久,不只要吃掉,连那叉烧油都要拿来捞面吃!

注解:砂州古晋真的有卖叉烧油面,真的是拿叉烧油来捞面吃哦~

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